Friday 15 September 2017

Crab sandwiches in Mudeford

A lovely sunny September day so we decided to make the most of the sunshine and caught the bus to Mudeford.




Almost within touching distance of Mudeford Quay, but actually a five-minute ferry-ride away, is the chichi community of 300 beach "huts" on Mudeford Spit.  With names like Buoys Own, The Asylum, Ticketyboo and Grumpy Old Git's Shed, they're big enough to sleep in and when they (very rarely) change hands, they cost up to £250,000 which is quite a lot for a hut.


But the setting is magical.  To the front, golden sand stretches down to the Solent with incomparable views of the Isle of Wight.  Behind is the picturesque tranquillity of Christchurch harbour and to the west is the wild, Iron-Age beauty of Hengistbury Head.


For lunch we headed back to Mudeford to The Haven House Inn, which clings barnacle-like, to the end of Mudeford Quay.


The Sundowners Terrace is a grandiose name for some decking at the rear of the pub, but there aren't many better spots, when the sun is shining (it can get quite windy in Mudeford) for downing a pint.
Real ale with a local choice between Ringwood Best and Fortyniner from the New Forest.  Standard pub fare is supplemented by denizens of the deep, including wonderful Mudeford crab sandwiches.
The Haven's inside, for those windy days, is whitewashed with smart black woodwork.  Small but cosy with twin brick fireplaces, one at either end.  In between is a snug cubicle with high-backed pews.  Flagstones compete with hectic carpet, but the carpet wins; children and wetsuits are barred.



In 1874 in the Battle of Mudeford, smugglers holed up in the Haven House, exchanged musket-fire with the king's excise men, resulting in George Coombes being hanged from a gibbet outside the pub.  These days, the quay is frequented by crabbers and twitchers, and hanging around the Haven is a little more civilised.

After lunch we walked along the seafront to Highcliffe Castle.  Beautiful grounds and Castle.  Only a couple of rooms to look at unless you pay for the guided tour.  Also the very British home of Mr. Selfridge.  It was thought to be a fear of Zeppelin raids that drove Selfridge to move out of London during the First World War and rent Highcliffe Castle for £5,000 a year fully furnished.



Mr. Selfridge lost his wife to the influenza epidemic of 1918.  Despite being widowed, Selfridge continued to live lavishly.  Selfridge could stand at the bottom of the Highcliffe grounds and see the ancient headland so in 1919, he bought 700 acres of Hengistbury Head from Sir George Meyrick and planned to build a castle there.

Much to the alarm of the locals, he announced he would be building "the largest castle in the world".  The basic plan involved four miles of ramparts with towers.  A large castle with Gothic hall, a 300ft tower, a theatre, a hall of mirrors copied from that at Versailles, a winter garden, a covered lake, long corridors and galleries for pictures, tapestries and other objet d'art, and at least 250 suites of rooms for guests.

However, in the decade after his wife died he reputedly ran through an $8m fortune and, combined with the financial impact of the Wall Street Crash in 1929, his wealth could no longer support his lifestyle.  So, in 1930, he sold 300 acres of Hengistbury Head to the local council, including covenants still in force today that ironically stipulated that the land could not be built on.

Fortunately, we get the best deal; he didn't get to create an oversized ego-driven building on a beautiful section of coastline and we can still enjoy it as nature intended. Such a relief he frittered his money away.

The simple grave of Harry Gordon Selfridge at St. Mark's Churchyard, just across the road from Highcliffe Castle, contains no clues about the lavish lifestyle the man who revoluntionised shopping once led. It is an unassuming legacy for so important a man.

We had some time to spare before catching the bus home so decided to try and find his grave.  The grave lies at the base of an ivy hedgerow, inscribed with only the few simple words 'In loving memory Harry Gordon Selfridge 1857 - 1947'.  Selfridge is laid to rest, separated by two unmarked graves, next to his wife Rosalie 'Rose' Buckingham.




Sunday 3 September 2017

Winchester Science Centre and The Red House Museum

More summer fun with the Grandchildren.  This time we took them to the Winchester Science Centre. It's an amazing place.  We arrived at 10 a.m. (necessary in order to park, which is free) and left at 4 p.m., when it closed.  They had a great time and so did we!  Everything is hands on, so totally engages your interest in the science behind how everything works, whatever your age.  Jamie is only 3 and we found plenty to entertain him.
There was an extra cost to go to one of the planetarium films but Wow the film we saw, The Life of Trees, was well worth it. They were absolutely enthralled, as was I!!

It was busy as it was a typical summers day (pouring with rain).

We also saw the Creepy Crawlies, which were visiting in the Marquee.

I would really recommend a visit and there is also a lovely children's play area outside.  And plenty of seats and tables inside, where you can eat your own lunch, although they also have a cafĂ©.

A great place to go and have fun, learn and inspire the next generation of scientists!


The next day we visited The Red House Museum in Christchurch.  A super little museum packed with local history and, at the moment, a special exhibition of gizmobots.  Gizmobots are found object robots that start life as finds from skips, second hand shops, car boot sales and scrap yards.  Each robot is carefully crafted so that all the parts come together to create a very desirable quirky robot, each with their own personality.

Previously, we have enjoyed dinosaurs and there are still a couple hiding in the garden.  The garden is just breathtaking, a hidden sanctuary away from the hustle and bustle of Christchurch town centre.  And, at present, there is a lovely Wind in the Willows trail for the children.

Step in and be charmed.

1.  Meet Mr. Mole, he has spent enough time underground.  He is tired of housework and has come up into the garden looking for a friend.  How do you know when there are moles about?
2.  Mr. Mole's first friend is Ratty.  He loves to mess about near the water or on his boat.  He likes to sing as he rows along the river.  Can you sing any songs about the riverbank or rowing a boat?

3.  If you look in the undergrowth you will find a ferocious animal not normally found in a garden.
Can you roar like a dinosaur?

4.  One of the great characters of the woodland is Mr. Toad.  He has many adventures, some of them ending in disaster.  He has a grand house to live in and loves to try new and exciting things.
What is the name of Mr. Toad's House?
5.  Mr. Toad is a keen motorist, he is always out and about in his car.  He likes to race around the countryside, sometimes with disastrous results.  Can you think of a rhyme or song about a well?
6.  Rest a while here.  Play some garden games.  Do you know what you use a sundial for?
7.  Mr. Badger is around here.  You don't see him very often as he likes to come out when it's dark.
What do we call the place where a badger lives?

8.  Mr. Rabbit lives in the area near to the Bug Hotel.  Can you name some of the creatures that will stay in the hotel?

9.  Deep in the woodland can you find the weasels' lair.  How many weasels are there?  (5)

10.  The statue of St. Francis looks over the courtyard.  He was the patron saint of all animals and nature.  He spent his life caring for the poor and sick, preaching to both people and animals.
Where is he?  (Above entrance/exit).

 


Saturday 2 September 2017

Hardy's Landscape

We were in Dorset for the weekend so decided to visit Thomas Hardy's cottage - a hidden gem of the National Trust.  We chugged up the lane to Higher Bockhampton where Hardy was born in 1840, in a stone cottage under Thorncombe Wood.  We parked, and after calling at the Visitor's centre to register for a timed visit, we approached the cottage through the wood, where paths have been laid through the landscape of his childhood - beech trees, sink-holes, a winding Roman road and a pond on a hill where a wild white pony stands.  All these things Hardy captured in the lyrical poems he wrote throughout his life; his first recorded poem, "Domicilium" is about this house and it's surroundings.


Inside the cottage it is a simple place of whitewashed walls and bare stone floors.  There's a wooden settle by a smoking hearth, china dogs on the mantle, and willow pattern dishes on a dresser.  Upstairs are three small bedrooms - one for girls, one for boys, and one for parents.  In the latter is a replica of the rough white table at which Thomas wrote his first four books - in this room - including Far From the Madding Crowd.  This was the breakthrough novel that allowed him to leave home and marry.

The volunteers who work here are very passionate and can definitely provide you with plenty of information.

It is in an idyllic spot in the wood and quite beautiful.  The aura and atmosphere in the cottage and the garden are such that you can imagine Thomas Hardy and his family going about their daily business.  Visit the garden shed and watch the film, it is delightful and gives such a wonderful insight into Hardy's life and times.

Next stop was Max Gate.  This is the National Trust property of Hardy's Victorian villa on the edge of town.  It's a sturdy red-brick mansion which he designed himself in the years of literary success, with turrets at each corner and was built by his father and brother.  Unfortunately, in accordance with his Will the furnishings were all sold at auction, as was the property, so all but a few items are not the original pieces. The drawing room has chintz chairs by a vast, dark fireplace.  The dining room has heavy chairs and flame-coloured walls.  In the attic is a separate suite of rooms that Hardy's first wife, Emma, moved into, halfway through their marriage.  It does not feel like a happy home.
It was interesting to see his home, and to learn about him in later life from the knowledgeable volunteer and guide books which are available on tables as you walk around the house.



After a lovely Sunday lunch in a nearby pub we drove on to T. E. Lawence's  (better known as Lawrence of Arabia) home, Clouds Hill.

If you are looking for excitement, fireworks, fun and frolics....don't venture to Clouds Hill!
However, if you want a sense of the solitude and the life T.E. Lawrence made for himself (sporadically) in Dorset, the essentially academic and private man who entertained predominantly literary figures, a sense of the quirky perfectionist who went to the trouble of installing a bath and lining rooms with cork and aluminium yet used a shovel and the garden for a loo....you have come to the right place.



From his library collection (sadly, none of the books at the house are his originals but purchased using an inventory of his library), to his self-designed reading chair including flat arms for a cup of tea in his self designed cups and book holder - it becomes apparent how such a perfectionist can have lived a life of such discontent.


The cottage - complete with the inscription "why worry?" in Greek, over the door is not much bigger than a garden shed and was built for a Forester in the early 19th century.  In the 1920s TE Lawance rescued it from dereliction as a refuge from his own fame.  It became his sanctuary in a restless life.  The cottage still has no electric light.  And, as National Trust volunteers will testify, it is often bitterly cold, despite Lawrence's attempt at installing a homemade insulation of asbestos and tin foil.  The sleeping space was two woollen sleeping bags embroidered with the words meum and tuum - mine and yours - on a sort of leather shelf.  George Bernard Shaw is said to have used it on at least one occasion.

Lawrence trained as an archaeologist, and was recruited as an intelligence officer in the war because of his wide travels in the Middle East, and his fluent Arabic.  He went on to help organise and fight in an Arab revolt against the Ottoman empire.  Although many of his commanding officers found him impossible to deal with, General Sir Edmund Allenby said he should be given a free hand:  "He was the mainspring of the Arab movement and knew their language, their manners and their mentality."

In May 1935 Lawrence rode away from Clouds Hill on the last of his series of powerful Brough Superior motorbikes and died in circumstances that are still debated.  Officially he skidded trying to avoid two boys in the road, but some believe he killed himself.  He died in hospital days after the crash.  In 1937, the cottage and many of its contents were given to the National Trust by his brother AW Lawrence as a memorial.

We then drove on to Rosemary and Furse Swann's beautiful Yoah Cottage,with private guest wing in a stunning garden (apparently it was originally for the shepherds) where we stayed for two nights with our very good friends Tony and Pauline.  Yoah Cottage is a charming 17c thatched cottage that does bed and breakfast in the attractive village of West Knighton. with lovely views over the garden and rolling farmland.  The cottage is thatched and built of stone and cob with exposed beams, old antique furniture and inglenook fireplaces   We also had our own beautiful sitting room with log fire but the weather was delightful so we didn't need it.  Breakfast was generous including home-made jams and marmalades and fruit from the garden.

Rose and Furse are the friendly owners, potters and have created a charming, art-filled home.  They are ceramic sculptors; Rose makes delicate, sometimes humorous pieces, Furse creates bold animals and birds; their thatched, rambling house is a jaw-dropping gallery of modern art, ceramics and fabrics.  The prettiest of cottage gardens brims with colour and scent.


Such warm-hearted, artistic owners - and you're deep in Hardy country.
Tel: +44(0)1305 852087

And the reason for our visit to Dorset.  We were here to celebrate a special occasion.  Clive's 65th birthday and retirement.  And what's a birthday if you can't have a party.  Rosie had taken over an amazing property and filled it with Clive's lovely family, including Mark, Clive's brother and his wife, Sindy from Portland, Oregan and Carol, Clive's sister, and husband Paul who had travelled from France.  It fitted the bill perfectly, plenty of room for the grandchildren and numerous dogs to roam around the garden and the in-house chefs (Clive's daughters Michelle and Sharon) prepared a lavish banquet.  The weather was also amazing.  Thank you Clive and Rosie for inviting us to share your special celebrations.


Wishing you a Happy Retirement.

The next day, on our way home, we spent an enjoyable morning wandering around the grounds of Sculpture by the Lakes discovering the interesting sculptures dotted around the lakes and gardens.  There was a real sense of peace and tranquillity and it was a pleasure to explore the beautiful scenery.
The park is showcasing the work of sculptor Simon Gudgeon with enormous bronze statues appearing in natural settings.  Some in the lakes, some in woodlands, some in the garden, but all sympathetically positioned to blend in with the landscape.  Everywhere we saw electric blue Damsel Flies darting about, many butterflies as well as birds.