Thursday, 5 May 2022

May is the month for celebrating birthdays.

 Alun celebrates first, followed closely by Emmie.

I closed my eyes for but a moment and suddenly a man stood where a boy used to be.  I may not carry you in my arms but I will always carry you in my heart.  You have given me so many reasons to be proud of the man you have become.

And to celebrate Alun and Emmie's birthdays we all met up in the New Forest at Bolderwood for a picnic and games.  Adjacent to the car park is a large flat grassy Forest lawn, perfect for kicking a football around or grouping up for a game of rounders!

Pass the Parcel

Emmie is 11 years old this year.  Wow.  Time flys by.
I can still remember the moment you were placed into my arms for the very first time.  I can still picture you as a toddler, that constant energy that kept Mummy and us on our toes.  We still laugh about how fast you could run!!

And now you'll soon be heading to big school.  But I have zero worries - you will do well, your drive to learn and do your best is something I'll always admire.  I have it all memorised but I've noticed that you've grown (nearly as tall as me now).  That ounce of teenager is ready to come out from under the surface.

You have brought us immeasurable joy in the last eleven years and I can't wait to see what this new year will bring.

Eleven years ago, I held you for the very first time and began to learn who you are.  I'm so incredibly proud of you Emmie -Boo.

Happy 11th birthday.  Really enjoyed the celebrations with you.




I love you to the moon and back.



Balmy Easter holidays.

 The Sun's out, (hot cross) buns out!

Stephen is visiting from Australia so we made the most of the balmy Easter holidays.

Good Friday - Phil and Stephen enjoyed an invigorating walk along the spit from Milford-on-Sea to Hurst Castle with wonderful views of the Isle of Wight and Needles plus Lymington.  They returned to Keyhaven via the Ferry.



Many people across the UK traditionally eat fish and chips on Good Friday so we met up with Alun, Gemma, her parents and Emmie for great fish and chips at Chez Fred in Bournemouth.

On Saturday we went to Studland with Caroline and family.  We crossed using the chain link ferry based in Sandbanks then drove to Knoll Beach.  We paid £3 for an Easter trail the National Trust had set up and took a 45 min walk through the woodland and along the beautiful beach following clues and then the grandchildren were rewarded with an Easter egg at the end.




And on Easter Sunday the family came over for a lovely lunch at the Beach House followed by an Easter egg hunt in the garden.






Thursday, 7 April 2022

Sylvia's Milestone Birthday

Happy 80th Birthday to my very good friend, Sylvia.


Here's to another year of laughing at our own jokes and keeping each other sane!


Like a fine wine, we get better with age......or rather, we feel better about our age with lots of wine.


Saying cheers to 80 years with the Invincibles at Wellington College.  Thank you for inviting us to share your birthday celebrations Sylvia.


Turning 80 is just like turning 27 in Celsius and remember, 80 is only 13 in Scrabble!!!


Wednesday, 16 March 2022

Stepping Back Into Skis

It has been three years since my last ski trip to Selva.  During this time it's been almost impossible to get away and particularly up into the mountains.  But this winter the Dolomites were calling and the lifts open for business.   It was time to dust off the ski goggles and head to the mountains.  I couldn't wait to strap on a pair of skis and feel the sun on my face.

This year my brother Stuart and his wife, Tina, joined us.  As well as Clive.  For the  sixth year we are staying at the Hotel Continental.  A skiing holiday for us Brits needs good skiing, superb surroundings and the comfort and convenience of a first class hotel (at a reasonable price).  It's all there in Selva, a vast 1200 km of piste of which you can never tire and the best mountain scenery anywhere on the Continent.



From beginning to end, the hotel was fab.  The rooms were very comfortable, the food top-notch and the lift would take you conveniently down to the ski room to get kitted up before hitting the slopes.  It's not quite ski in, ski out, you do have to carry your skis across the road (5m).  But the main Dantecepies gondola is next door.  There is also a Spa with a whirlpool which relieves the stiffness from my hard worked muscles and relaxes and destresses me totally.  One small downside is the half mile uphill walk from the centre of Selva, but hey do you want to be near the shops or near the skiing?    Congratulations Stuart and Tina, who celebrated their ruby wedding anniversary whilst on holiday.

The key to a successful winter holiday during Covid is to be able to keep abreast of the up-to-date requirements.  Mask up, ski down.  The rules are straightforward - when you get to the top you can remove your mask and make the most of the fresh air, breath taking views and stunning landscapes.  That feeling of reaching the top of a lift, taking in the scenery and anticipating your next run is what many people have missed during the pandemic and is the essence of why many return to the mountains year after year.  I can't believe how much I missed it.  And the curtain hooks on my helmet made masking up quite easy.

Hopefully, it is not immediately apparent, particularly behind goggles, helmet and multiple layers of ski gear that I am now well over the age of 60.  And with the "boys" it certainly won't be their skiing style that betrays their advanced years, as having honed their skills over decades, their technique is better than those a fraction of their age.

However, I am all too aware of the need to adapt to take account of my advanced years so I join Ski School whilst the boys wizz off on ski safaris.  I ski for the ambience, the mountain air, to step out of a lift and see the view.  It's taken me to the top - all I need to do now is get down and following the Instructor is amazing fun.

I felt more nerves than excitement  as I stepped back into my skis.  But I was determined to overcome the fear factor and build my confidence back up.  My instructor, Toni, was excellent. He took things slowly to help the group find our ski legs again.  I played things very safe to begin with but after a few gentle runs I began to loosen up and relax into the movement a bit more.  Although I was concentrating primarily on my ski technique, I was struck by how beautiful the mountain scenery was. Toni was a suntanned wizard of the slopes.  Amazingly enough, under his tutelage I transformed from nervous to black runs within a couple of days.  Ending each lesson in a state of exhaustion and exhilaration.  I was transported back into a winter wonderland.    Life is very stressful in the world at the moment because of Russia and Ukraine but simply being active outdoors made me feel calmer and more relaxed.  I had to focus on my ski skills and I found myself calming down because I couldn't think of much else.  It was also lovely to make new friends with the other members of the class, especially Shona, whom I hope I may meet again on the slopes in the future.

This trip we were blessed with great weather.  Every morning we awoke to another glorious day in the Alps.  The Italian Val Gardena ski area in South Tyrol lies between rugged mountains, the Dolomites.  During the day these disguise themselves as panettone iced with a fine layer of sugar then at sunset, the mountains turn red, which is called the Alpenglow, an optical phenomenon that appears as a reddish glow near the horizon.


The area has 300 days of sunshine a year.  Thus an ideal location for refuelling much-needed Vitamin D after the dark winter months.  The well maintained slopes have guaranteed snow despite the lovely weather due to the altitude (+2000m) and the presence of snow cannons.

                                                             Boys' lunch
                                                             /Girls' lunch

The sun was out so the boys set off with an Instructor on a ski safari to the Marmolada where they enjoyed spectacular views.  A daunting day but certainly worth the effort.  Standing at 3,343 metres, the Marmolada is visible on a clear day from the Italian city of Venice.  This mountain is the highest in the range known as the Dolomites which make up a small part of the Southern Alps connecting Italy with Austria.  The whole area is recognised as a UNESCO World Heritage Site.


The boys also skied the Hidden Valley, the walls are scattered with frozen waterfalls and the run twists and turns for 7 km, creating a mysterious, secret ambience.  At the bottom of the trail, you have the option of taking the horse drag, a great experience, where you hold on to ropes pulled by a pair of horses as they take you along the flat frozen river bed to the next lift.

A wonderful holiday - we all had a blast.  Cannot say enough wonderful things.

And at the end of a hard days skiing.  The reward a Bombardino  This will blow your mind (literally).  Like eggnog?  Then you're gonna LOVE this little dessert.  It's made from an egg-based liqueur such as Zabov or Advocaat, brandy and whipped cream which is topped with a sprinkling of cinnamon.